5 myths of the Facebook-perfect family
Facebook is a great way to stay connected and share a glimpse into your own life.
(It can also be a great way to put off doing something productive- like cleaning or doing laundry. But that's a post for another day.)
When it comes to Facebook, it's not fun to share the ugly parts of life. Who really wants to relive the bad parts of your day?
Which is why Facebook shows us a whitewashed version of our lives. The versions of life, parenthood and relationships that we want to relive and remember. Not the parts we wish we could forget.
But this means that we all think our friends have perfect lives. And your friends may also think you have a perfect life. (Which we can all agree doesn't exist.)
Here are a few myths Facebook would have you believe ....
Your family always gets along.
Let's chalk this myth up to all the amazing family photographers in the Quad Cities. Those golden-lit photos of your family laughing and romping in fields of sunflowers?
Those probably aren't the typical picture of your life. (Although these images are definitely beautiful and swoon-worthy. You should definitely keep sharing those photos on Facebook.)
If your family photo sessions are like many, they involve stress about coordinating outfits, candy bribery, and prayers that the kids will behave and smile enough to get one good photo for grandparents.
In truth, some of the most memorable and beautiful moments of parenthood don't reach your album and aren't magazine-ready. And in truth, there are many days that your family is having a hard time just getting along.
That's normal and that's okay.
Your family has picture-perfect vacation.
It's an unwritten Facebook rule that families must share vacation photos. Otherwise, the vacation may not have actually happened.
So that Disney cruise you took? It looks beautiful and magical. The photo of your daughter with Princess Jasmine? It could be on the cover of the cruise pamphlet.
But I'm guessing there are some moments that didn't make it onto Facebook - like that time you got seasick or your kids had epic sugar-induced meltdowns right before the evening Mickey show.
Your kids are geniuses.
When your child makes the Honor Roll, masters reading a chapter book or sings the alphabet, it's going to make it onto Facebook.
And your Facebook friends cheer along with you and your kids! Because you both deserve major pats on the back.
But remember that there are some things that don't make it to the Facebook feed - like when Junior failed his Chem test or your daughter didn't do well in the spelling bee.
There's no reason to rehash these online, but it's important to know that every family has ups and downs. (You just may not see the downs.)
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